What comes to mind when you call yourself a fully matured person?
A child’s id can never make him strive for a maturity level.
A teenager’s ego can never make you strive for maturity.
An adult’s super ego is the perfect route for the destined maturity.
In this hostile world when you realise that the acquisition of every worldly possession is not your greatest dream but smiling on a minor fiasco is greater, then you can call yourself matured.
When you realise that its not important to overt everything going in your to social media, call yourself mature.
When you realise you don’t have to meet people to just get yourself clicked to be posted on social media but you meet people to make memories, call yourself matured.
When you realise that you don’t have to walk hand in hand with your partner.
When you realise that you don’t have to talk to your partner every single second to make him or her realise that you love them.
When you realise that meeting your partner every time and every time hugging and kissing won’t show your love or make him free from insecurities, call yourself matured.
When you realise that life goals are more important than your relationship goals, call yourself mature.
When you realise that life is not a bed of roses but life is in being prudent, call yourself mature.
When you realise that its not always people who can make your mood okay but its you who needs solace sometimes from worldly affairs, call yourself mature.
When you realise that don’t have to fake your life to make it appear big, call yourself mature.
Maturity comes from within , not with the idea of being mature.
Maturity is a self realisation.
Neither I nor anybody else can make you mature in your approach.
Actions are more revealing of one’s true character since it is easy to say things or make promises, but it takes effort to do things and follow through.
People say things and make promises they have no intention of keeping on a daily basis. You can tell someone you love him or her as many times as you want, but until your behavior coincides with that, the other person will probably not believe you. Some feelings cannot be expressed in mere words; they require actions to speak for the.
To be precise ” ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS ”
But what if when you only have words.
Words which may have a indelible effect.
What if actions impound me and words provide me impunity.
I want you in my life not because to take care of me when I am disheartened due to reasons.
I want you to be beside me when I am running short of words to complete my poetry.
I’ll make sure I love you when you write for me albeit it may contain many wrongs.
I promise i’ll be there to rectify them.
In your jargon moments i’ll be your words.
Just be the one I need daily not to show your love in actions but in words.
Yes actions may speak louder than words.
But to be prudent , actions can be deceptive but words never lie.
Actions can be manipulated ,
words come from within.
Do you have time?
If no then take out some.
If yes then think about it.
You are away from home living away from your parents.
Living on there money.
You came to stand up to their expectations.
But fulfilling your wishes.
What does the generation of today wish.
Yes the modern trend has made us so elite in our terms that we consider doing all stuff like drinking , sex , lavish life on the money of whom.
Yes answer it on the money of whom?
Yes the one’s who gave you birth , who took care of you selflessly , who are the one who make you rise when ever you fall.
They did not ask you anything but every time you ask them for money.
A thing which you don’t own.
A thing which belongs to them.
You spend it like you deserve it.
I’ll ask you a thing.
Whatever age you are have you done anything to make your parents proud.
And how many things are you presently doing which doesn’t suit your highness.
Today i really understood was selfless and humanity is.
Much of the people destroying this earth day by day only has humanity and selfless only in their vocabulary.
But do you even know what does it means.
I am not wanting your oxford dictionary meaning.
That even i can read .
Your mother. Yes your mother , not anybody you don’t know.
I guess she is the best person you know the best.
She is the definition of selfless.
You have a real example in your life and you were finding that in the oxford.
And here comes humanity poking its nose.
We give speeches on being humane in our approach.
Oh young one come here lemme give a hug if that is what you call humanity.
I have seen people wasting things they don’t no longer desire for it.
Doesn’t it hurts your heart even an iota when you do that.
When you have a twitch in your heart upon doing things which are mediocre these days you can proudly call yourself that you are a bit of human.
There is a lot of difference in being human and a human being.
Figure out who you are and you’ll get your answer.
Following the mundane routine is normal.
But showing a bit humanity is immortal.
Never in life cry about things you don’t posses.
The person in front of you might not even have what you posses and still smiling.
Don’t show yourself as a weak , meagre person.
Your strength lies in what you think , what you do and what responsibilities you have in your life.
Never lose a thing while running for the smaller truths in life.
See the bigger truths in life and that’ll help.
Have you ever wondered what all situations a person goes through behind whom you mock.
Yes its very easy to criticise a person.
Its very easy to degrade the reputation of a person.
Just because the person left you.
Or just because the person is not with you.
Or rather just because that person no longer cannot compromise with their own emotions and happiness for the sake of others.
We will in a society that we were with someone after they get separated we will find another one to hook up with.
Just because you were not wearing the shoes of that person how can you determine the future or can make presumptions about what is he going to do later in his life.
Whether that person is going to allow anybody in there lives further.
Who are you to decide?
It is not always that we leave a person to hook up with another.
Self happiness , priorities are also some named words . If you haven’t heard of them go in a search of them rather than making your intuitions come true for others.
Have your life and life it .
When suddenly you come to know that you have to leave behind everything and life your life further.
Unlock what lays further.
What you went through was just a bad phase of time.
Which you have faced earlier than other people.
Everybody at some point of time experiences betrayal and hatred.
The person who you considered home.
Left you homeless.
In this not so familiar world where everybody desires there happiness at the cost of everybody’s happiness.
Even a mental trauma is a weaker term to describe the state of mind which is filled only with memories when knocked only sound hollow.
It feels like every iota of happiness is being snatched from there heart.
People start faking smiles.
When they have lived with a person who comes out as the biggest betrayal ever.
Everything starts faking automatically.
Everything seems fake.
This is not mental trauma which you are going through its just the result of excessive feelings you had for the undeserving person.
There are many people who are the worst enemies of your happiness.
They are the ones who will never know that what they did that made you sad.
Those people should only rebelled.
Their closeness to you will only bring you codswallop thoughts.
They are the ones who will destroy your mood to such a peak level that you sometimes feel that why do those people even exist in your life.
Sometimes you feel how have you given permission to such kind of people to intervene in your life.
Such people are only a way to pull you back from your happiness.
Pull you back from your goals.
They will always feel that its your mistake.
And realise their own.
They are ones who will need us only when they don’t have enough people around them.
They will never remember you when they are busy or working.
It will always be you who will remind them that you are a part of their life.
Lately you lose your precious charm and smile because of these people.
These people are only hindrances in your life.
Throw them out of your life as they do not deserve your love and your care.
Moreover they don’t deserve to be a part of your life.
Do anybody holds a right to abuse you ?
Think once and you will get an answer .
The bonzer abusive words they use to insult or rather simply humiliate us make them feel so satisfied in their hearts as if they have achieved something very praiseworthy.
These days the trend is if someone is not in your good books then you backbitch that person to satisfy your hatred for them.
Have you ever tried to figure out what words you speak while you are angry or have you ever thought what those words mean.
No because abusing someone comes as a reflex but the meaning is kept in the unconscious mind.
If you dont abuse anyone with the trending abusive phrases you are considered a backward person.
Do our society follow these norms to justify who is elite and who is backward in our society ?
If no , then why are we judged on these basis. Why a simple person who can speak politely considered weak by modern era.
If yes , then i have no problem in saying that yes i dont fit into your modern standards .
Because its me who decide what decorum i should have . Because i dont have to fit into your standards i have my own , which are antithetical to yours.
You think your codswallop behavior is of extreme dignity. Yes it might be for some who are trying to cope up with the trending era but for me your demure is just tomfoolery.
People say the world can be changed by speech , when you dont have control over your horrendous speech do you think you have a right to speak even.
Yes now you will argue that you have a right to speak anything. Yes you have a right to speak anything i am not depriving you of your fundamental rights but then again dont show a hand to someone who points out a finger at your upbringing. If your speech is an outcome of your upbringing don’t argue that you belong to a very elite family.
Because highness is shown in the way you converse not in the way you abuse.
For a world so mean and full of hostile intentions.
For a world full of profligates.
For a world full of obfuscate thoughts.
Where a mere light light of glamour changes people’s mind.
She wearing a full dress , is backward.
Now she wearing a short dress is slut.
Where people are of the opinion that exposing their bodies will give them name and fame.
Where even a seven year old child is raped.
Where we tend to portray ourselves being elite.
Where on the other hand we our worst than animals.
Where everything happens for a reason.
Where every good deed done has a selfish motive.
Where everyone wears a mask of humanity.
Where underneath lies hatred and negativity.
Here is this world we belong to.
Struggling for our existence.
No less than others.
When we start drifting from the person who meant a lot to us and who still has that special place in the corner of our heart that we cannot give it to others, we don’t even dare to..maybe in the end there is always one person who is more attached than the other..maybe in the end we never get enough of what we expected. Maybe in the end this is called love..maybe in end messing up always win a pure faithful soul. We run from our past and say don’t worry about the future just live in the present moment. How can we live this moment when it is already going to end someday more worst than past. Ironically past is better..people say you have changed now that means they were perfect in the past and now they are no more perfect..so past was beautiful….it had downs so it had ups to compensate…it had sadness so it also had happiness to overcome that sadness…but what does present have only screwed up lives…we were best in past…and we are worst in present…EXPECTATIONS !!! That’s it…do we have a right to expect anything from others when we ourselves are not able to stand up to our expectations..how can we expect that the other person will fulfil all our wishes…its ironical how we accept ourselves and love ourselves despite of the fact that we have many flaws and we cannot love a person just with a few flaws…people are ironical…world itself is an irony.
Life cannot be a immortal living.
One who has seen this world is destined to see the hell and heaven also.
Life is one time experience which you can either make yourself or you can just do what others expect you to do.
When you go through the journey called life let not give people a chance to say he just passed his life. Rather make people force to say he lived his life.
Its your life which you will get only once let not people dominate over it .
Make it the best.
Go to the highest mountain you feared in childhood.
Dive into the deepest see , which you fanticised when young.
Achieve everything which people only think of.
Obambulate here and there.
Don’t you regret anything in your oldage.
Do what you think is right.
You are obliged only to yourself.
You are only liable to answer your questions.
Don’t ever work to please someone. Just do it to make yourself satisfied.
There will be many hindrances in your pathway till you own the zenith of everything but its upto you how you face them.
Make the best use of your time to its fullest .
Don’t spare an iota of your life just to regret what people said behind you.
Its there job to speak and its your job to show them what you can do.